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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-24 03:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #2791 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2791 ⌋

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Re: Fandom Confessions

[personal profile] elaminator 2014-08-24 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)
It probably won't help, but honestly...even if you aren't contributing anything new and ~exciting~ to the discussion, would that be the worst possible situation? As long as you're enjoying yourself that's enough! We have plenty of folks here who agree with each other, and sometimes they don't have much more to add, but people don't tend to jump on them for it. (Hell, sometimes I just '+1' and leave myself.)

Not that I don't get not wanting to comment because of fear (I used to feel like that constantly), but well...you shouldn't think of yourself as a hindrance. It's just fandom, it should be fun; you don't have anything to feel bad about.

Re: Fandom Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-08-24 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT
I tend to overthink a lot, everytime I post something online - be it personal or fandom - I think about people being able to read it, then their thought about it, what if they think it was stupid, what if they secretly laugh at it, or worst of all, what if nobody cares. Nobody would care of what I think, they mostly don't in real life... It's a stupid circle, but I can't help it and eventually I lost interest altogether. (It's also the reason why my facebook page is mostly empty. After all, if I can't face strangers on the internet knowing my thoughts how can I to people I actually know).
It doesn't help that I'm just not that good at expressing myself, both IRL and by words. I'm not at the level of Englsh to have a decent debate, and websites in my native language seemes to be dominated by teenagers who like to squee and talk about feels.
Anyway, thanks for replying and giving me encouragment, I think I will try to associate more, starting with this site since there seems to be lots of nice people here. I apologize if I bore you whith my rant.
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Re: Fandom Confessions

[personal profile] elaminator 2014-08-24 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
You aren't boring! And I understood what you said perfectly, so your English seems a-okay to me!

It sounds like you suffer from low self-esteem and anxiety, but if that's true, hey, don't feel ashamed; lots of people have those problems. I have them too, it's just something you have to work on. The best way to overcome that kind of thing is just to try not caring so much. If you put yourself out there people might reply, and they might not, but at least you said what you wanted to say, right? So it's kind of a weight off your chest, but you never know what's going to happen; maybe you'll attract some attention and find someone to talk with. You never know if you don't try.

I hope you continue to comment! If you don't I get it, but I'll look forward to talking to you again. (Even if I won't realize it's you, lol.)