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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-25 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2792 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2792 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 047 secrets from Secret Submission Post #399.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-26 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
Consider: is it really that the fictional characters in question are perfect or just that you get to learn about their imperfections from a safe distance where they cannot harm you and you get to see inside their heads and see how they think, so that if they ever magically appeared before you, you'd already know them and how they tick and be prepared for their flaws?

I know how intimidating it can be to entertain the idea of a relationship with someone you don't already know well, because romantic relationships and close friendships involve a great deal of emotional intimacy and the idea of sharing yourself like that with someone who is, as of right now, a complete stranger is daunting and kind of icky. Just remember: you don't need to share yourself completely right away - you slip into that gradually as you get to know one another - and if you run up against any actual deal-breakers, whether in a friendship or a romantic relationship, you reserve the right to bail.