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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-25 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2792 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2792 ⌋

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OP (Update on situation)

(Anonymous) 2014-08-26 02:36 am (UTC)(link)
so, i made this secret a while ago but while i was waiting for this to be posted, i had enough. i completely deleted my twitter (where i would get the brunt of it) and tried to contact the ones that i felt were good to me.

i miss twitter but it's an addiction for me plus, they were so goddamn negative and hurtful.

like if i tweeted something that "oh hey my boss hurt my feelings today" (or really, anything that hurts me physically or emotionally). no one would really give a shit. but if something happened to someone they agreed with, suddenly, it's a change.org matter.

and i've addressed with them before. the only time they give a shit though is when i'm criticizing them.

"oh, i don't do that! YOU'RE OUR FRIEND." and it's so hilarious too that they're all social justice warriors as well. they get mad when i don't really follow the hive mind, literally.

and this is a problem i've always had. this is why i have no friends. i don't think like everyone else do and i'm sick of it... i want to think like everyone else so i can finally be welcomed...

honestly, right now, the hard part is realizing that: yes, these people were not your friends and never really did have my best interest at heart. i just don't know where to begin again...

Re: OP (Update on situation)

(Anonymous) 2014-08-26 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry OP, it really does sound like they weren't great friends to begin with.

I think you can find friends who will be better to you, it will just take some time. Also look out for the warning signs of "hive mind" people, I never have an easy time being friends with people who all think a like, because they tend to turn and gang up on others too quickly. Try looking for a crowd that may have a common thread or two but is otherwise full of individuals with their own opinions. Those are the type of people who tend to be really fun.

OP

(Anonymous) 2014-08-26 02:57 am (UTC)(link)
that's true... i do hope i find some friends who'll treat me better. i mean, when i deleted, i made sure i have the extra contact info of those i can talk to without that shit in the back of my mind.

i hope i find some one day and finally belong. thank you, nonny. ♥

Re: OP (Update on situation)

(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 12:15 am (UTC)(link)

honestly, right now, the hard part is realizing that: yes, these people were not your friends and never really did have my best interest at heart. i just don't know where to begin again...


Oh, I know it. I know all of it. But... you'll realize, I think, how much happier you are now that those people are no longer in your lives. Believe me. I know it doesn't feel like it now, though.