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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-26 08:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #2793 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2793 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
I mean...are you going to stalk the LPer and try to become their GF? If not, it is just a celeb crush. They happen all the time.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
This. A lot of people have crushes on internet celebrities and what-not. OP's boyfriend probably fancies some famous women as well, it's pretty normal.
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[personal profile] a_potato 2014-08-27 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
Just dropping in to say that even if it were someone OP knew in real life, it would still be totally normal and okay. It's only not okay if you start actively pursuing said crush (assuming you're not in an open relationship, of course).
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[personal profile] silvereriena 2014-08-27 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think you're in trouble, OP. It's easy to crush on characters/celebrities/other people in media. Doesn't mean you're gonna up and leave your boyfriend or anything.

(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
Having a boyfriend means you are not supposed to have crushes?
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[personal profile] ibbity 2014-08-27 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
Celebrity crushes (provided they do not become celebrity obsessions) are fine as long as you aren't making a huge deal of it in your partner's face. My bf has a celebrity crush on Taylor Swift (it's purely a physical thing. He thinks she's really immature as a person) and it doesn't bother me because it's not like TayTay is suddenly gonna appear at our door and sweep him away. He just likes to admire her from afar. I'm assuming that's what you're doing too, and as long as the line between fantasy (celeb crush) and reality (actual partner) is strong, you're good.
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[personal profile] dazzledfirestar 2014-08-27 02:43 pm (UTC)(link)
fine as long as you aren't making a huge deal of it in your partner's face.

That literally made me laugh out loud. My husband and I have in depth discussions about our celebrity crushes on a pretty regular basis. It just depends on how your relationship works and how secure you are in it as to what "making a huge deal of it" means. It's a harmless, fun thing. Why not share the fun with someone you're close to? lol
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[personal profile] ibbity 2014-08-27 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)
What I mean is that you should make sure the partner isn't feeling like you're more attracted to the celebrity than you are to them. And that if the partner isn't all that comfortable with you talking about the celeb, you don't constantly talk about him/her in their presence. Not everyone is as cool about sharing outside crushes with their partners as you guys are, you know.