[ SECRET POST #2793 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2793 ⌋

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Comments

Re: is this abuse?

[(Anonymous)]

I wasn't even halfway through this before I knew: this guy is not your friend. And yes, what he's doing is emotionally abusive as well as manipulating you.

Someone who loves you will not try to control you and cut you off from your friends. Someone who loves you will not monopolize your time (because that's not love, that's possessiveness and they are two very different things) and get angry with you when that doesn't happen. Someone who loves you will not punish you by being emotionally distant. Someone who loves you will not force you to beg for time, attention and kindness.

I think it was Maya Angelou who said: When someone shows you who they are, believe them. This guy has shown you who he is. All the awful things he's said and done... do you want more? If the answer is no, then cut him loose. Don't wait or hope for him to change, because chances are he won't. But you will, and not for the better, because you'll have to keep sacrificing your needs for his and here's the kicker-- it will never, ever be enough. You'll give up everything, and he'll still be angry and hateful and manipulative, because that's how emotionally abusive people are.

Do not wait for this guy to wake up and make you happy. Make yourself happy. Nuke him from your life and find someone who cares enough to be a good friend.