[ SECRET POST #2793 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2793 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

He is a classic emotional abuser, and as hard as it might be to hear it, he does not love you. He might love the idea of havingyou, but you, the actual, real flesh and blood person with thoughts and feelings and wants of your own? You aren't important to him save as a prop for his own ego, and he has told you this again and again by making everything, even your emotions about him.

You need to walk away. Shut the metaphorical door, lock it, and do not open it for anything. Block him on IM, don't talk to him in person or on the phone. If you feel the need to tell him you're cutting him off and why, write it down, send it to him, and block his address. You don't need to know what he says in response. Once he realizes you're really cutting him off, he'll probably try to get you back, and he'll probably make it sound good, so don't give him the chance. It's bullshit. He might be on his best behavior for a while, but he will drag you back into the same poisonous routine in short order, and it is infinitely harder to get out once you've gone back.

It will hurt, a lot, because he's savaged your self esteem and self image and made your life entirely about him, but you will feel better when he's out of your system, and you will find friends and lovers who are actually worth your time and who will reciprocate your love and attention.