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fandomsecrets2014-08-26 08:35 pm
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Re: is this abuse?
(Anonymous) 2014-08-27 06:47 am (UTC)(link)Here's a link you might find interesting (and also triggering, so read with care. http://issendai.livejournal.com/572510.html You can see that a whole lot of people have been through much the same thing.
Also there's this website http://www.verbalabuse.com/ - this author's books helped me work out what had been done to my head over a period of a couple of decades. Although she does occasionally talk about emotionally abusive men changing, she makes it clear that this very rarely happens... I should get shares in these books, I rec them so often. Again, read carefully: they still bring back bad memories for me.
You have one huge advantage in that you've still got an idea of what's being done to you. Hold on to that knowledge. Hold on to your self. And good luck, anon. Please let us know how it goes for you.