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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-28 07:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #2795 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2795 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Law & Order: Criminal Intent]


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[Fred Astaire/Ginger Rogers]


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[Jeeves and Wooster]


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[Yahtzee/Zero Punctuation]


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[Markiplier]


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[Jackie Chan Adventures]


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[The Parent Trap]


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[Alexander]


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[Starsky and Hutch]











Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 012 secrets from Secret Submission Post #399.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Finding it hard to identify with people/characters of a different sexual orientation?

(Anonymous) 2014-08-29 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
It only makes you a bad person if you approach others of a different orientation and go "WTF, people? That can't be real!" If you simply don't "get it" then that's okay. At least you make the effort to understand.

That said, for the most part, I just kind of go "hmm, okay" around gay relationships unless it's something that's specifically touched my heart. I don't treat it like it's any less valid than hetero stuff, even if I don't personally relate to it.

Re: Finding it hard to identify with people/characters of a different sexual orientation?

(Anonymous) 2014-08-29 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
OP

Oh, no, I would never tell anyone that! It's just something I'm thinking to myself. I've been thinking about how it's hard to relate but maybe the point is that I don't NEED to relate. Maybe just saying 'alright, that isn't my experience, but it's theirs and it's just as real to them as my relationship is to me' and leaving it at that is actually okay.