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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-31 03:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2798 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2798 ⌋

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Re: Women who blame "the other woman" but not the guy who cheated...

(Anonymous) 2014-08-31 08:50 pm (UTC)(link)
You might think I'm old fashioned for this, but I do believe the "other woman" or "other man" is at fault too, but ONLY if they knew the person they were involved with was in a relationship. If they weren't aware, then it was just as much as a betrayal to them. If they did know, then sorry, I believe they're pretty shitty for doing what they did knowing that it could tear lives apart and hurt people.

Also your friend is kind of an idiot. She knew this guy was a cheater because she was involved with him in that way when he was cheating on his own wife. Did she really think he would stop just because he was with her? That never works. Cheating shows a disregard for other's feelings and a disrespect for relationships to get what you want. Anyone who thinks cheating is okay is obviously not going to have a problem with doing it again unless they get intervention from therapy.

I don't want to sound too harsh. You yourself sound like a reasonable, open minded person. But I can't say I would respect your friend. It looks like karma paid her a visit.