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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-31 03:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2798 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2798 ⌋

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Re: Women who blame "the other woman" but not the guy who cheated...

(Anonymous) 2014-08-31 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
As someone who was cheated on, I guess I can sort of explain? I know it's irrational, but it's a feeling you can't really help. I hate the other woman internally. I hate that she came on to him strongly, I hate that she was offering to have unprotected sex with a guy she had just met, I hate that she expected him to spend the rest of his life with her just because she got pregnant. And yes, if she hadn't had an abortion, I would asked for a paternity test because if you're willing to have sex with one stranger without condoms or birth control, you'd probably do it with any stranger. (I love my boyfriend, but he's not the type of guy you'd throw your life away for a one night stand, we're both extremely average looking) I blame my boyfriend, too, however.

Aside from what I've said here, I keep my feelings about her to myself. It's just...cathartic? I guess it's helping me cope with it.