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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-08-31 03:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2798 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2798 ⌋

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Re: To be completely honest...

(Anonymous) 2014-09-01 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
As someone who has been in a relationship with someone that was forced into long distance during the "honeymoon" stage I can get wanting to send pics. When all you've got is your phone, sexting only does so much. The pics add another level of intimacy that can't be obtained while apart. I know it's easy to say, "Wait till you're together." But when that wait can be years at a time, it's not that easy. And honestly, in the heat of the moment, I don't think you're really thinking about, "Oh god, someone might hack my phone and find these." You just do it. Now, why these celebrities didn't use something like snapchat or desync their phones from the cloud is a flaw in their personal security to prevent things like this from happening.

Re: To be completely honest...

(Anonymous) 2014-09-01 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
Try Skype. Phone sex. Dirty letters by carrier pigeon. The options are there in a way that don't end with a freeze frame of your nude self in cyber space.

Re: To be completely honest...

(Anonymous) 2014-09-01 09:32 am (UTC)(link)
Skype = Internet connection not always reliable. And also, no reliable way to know that the video isn't being recorded or screenshot on the other end anyways.

Phone sex = Long distance + roaming charges. Also, no reliable way to know if the call is being recorded on the other end or if it's a landline, someone else is listening.

Letters = Takes too long. And no guarantee that the letter will actually get to them. It could get lost in the mail or a nosey roommate/family member/neighbor could open it.

And in all situations (including sexting and nude pics) an angry ex could repost all of it if they're an asshole.

Basically, you're not 100% safe from doing anything. So, your only real choice is to not do it. That's like saying to someone that the only sure way not to get pregnant is to not have sex. Yes, it's rational, but it's not practical for most people involved because they want that sort of intimacy with each other.