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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-02 06:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #2800 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2800 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Song of the Lioness]


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[Genso Suikoden II]


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[Gordon Ramsay]


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[Outlast: Whistleblower]


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[Chris Pine/Zachary Quinto]


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[Kaizoku Sentai Gokaiger]


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[Johnny Wander/Lucky Penny]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Daft Punk]


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[Discworld]


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[Grant Imahara, Kari Byron and Tory Belleci]


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[The Hobbit]







Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 045 secrets from Secret Submission Post #400.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Work rant

(Anonymous) 2014-09-03 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
I'm confused. Are you disgusted with him saying it (was he saying it seriously, or as a joke?) or were you disgusted with her playing along to end the conversation? Why were you disgusted? Is it because she's not a close friend and it's a weird thing to think about a relative stranger like that?

I only ask because it's not the first time people have made that joke and it never struck me as weird/gross/creepy/whatever unless they pushed it and made it creepy, which I've never seen happen (though I'm sure some idiot somewhere has).

Re: Work rant

(Anonymous) 2014-09-03 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
Pretty sure OP meant the attitude of "girls kissing each other hurr hurr that's hot."

Re: Work rant

(Anonymous) 2014-09-03 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
OP
I'm grossed out that my supervisor would say that. I'm sure he was saying it jokingly, but I don't get along with him that I am OK with him making jokes like that. I guess he found it OK since he gets along better with my coworker. I just wished she wouldn't have told me, because I would have felt so uncomfortable if he said it to me. He's just come off rather misogynistic to me, and that comment didn't make me think any better of him.

Re: Work rant

(Anonymous) 2014-09-03 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
Ah. Yeah I guess it depends on who's making the joke/the intent behind it.

Re: Work rant

(Anonymous) 2014-09-03 12:53 pm (UTC)(link)
It's always creepy, even if you're really good friends, though it might be less insulting. It's sexualizing someone in a homophobic way that caters to a highly misogynistic society. Even as, maybe especially as, someone does kiss girls, it's creepy because someone is including me in their sex without my permission. We all have fantasies, including about people IRL, but if you're going to start spreading it around it becomes intrusive and uncomfortable. If you're going to do that shit, you become creepy.