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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-06 03:53 pm

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All I want to do right now is fuck a woman

(Anonymous) 2014-09-07 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, I just have to get this out.

I'm a bisexual female in a relationship with a male. And I'm attracted to him, and he satisfies me sexually, but...lately, I have just wanted to be with a woman so fucking badly. It's cool, because it's something we've talked about and we're both okay with opening up the relationship if one or the other of us should find ourselves attracted to someone else. The problem is that there is no woman in my life, so I feel soooooo frustrated right now. I'm reading all sorts of f/f smut but it's just not the same as actually being with someone, and having sex with him is very nice but what I really want right now is to have sex with a woman and so it's just not the same.

Goooood.

Has anyone else experienced anything like this? This is honestly very odd to me. Like, throughout most of my life, my desires have been very local in the sense that I have people that I'm attracted to, and I want to have sex with them. I can't remember a time when my desires have been this general, where specifically I've felt like "I need the cock" or "I need the vagina." It's driving me nuts.

Re: All I want to do right now is fuck a woman

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-09-07 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
lol are you me? Although I'm single so all I ever need to do to find a penis or a vagina is hit up ye olde craigslist.

Of course, we all know that can be a disaster if someone happens to be misrepresenting themselves.

Re: All I want to do right now is fuck a woman

(Anonymous) 2014-09-07 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
Oh god. I am so terrified of meeting someone through craigslist. Nightmares are made of that stuff.

Re: All I want to do right now is fuck a woman

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-09-07 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
It's not actually terrible most of the time. I can imagine there'd be more of a fear factor for a woman (not trying to be misogynist here, just talking in a pragmatic sense) but basically every person I've met has been more or less sane.

There's the gamut of cheaters, closeted guys, closeted women, creepy individuals, intensely socially awkward people and the like, but more often than not it's the same spread as normal dating. And for the most part, I tend to meet people who are like yourself- in open relationships and looking for something they don't normally get from their full time partner.

Just exercising the same kind of caution you'd have with any internet meetup (meet in a public place, exchange pictures and stats beforehand, make sure rules about names and personal information are laid out beforehand...etc etc) really cuts down on the chances of getting into a bad/awkward situation.

Which isn't to say that some people don't post fake pics and stats, but it's pretty easy to just walk away from that when it happens.

Re: All I want to do right now is fuck a woman

(Anonymous) 2014-09-07 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
I've had this experience of just wanting sex with someone who possessed a specific genitalia, and I didn't care who it was attached to. But for Reasons I wasn't able to make my wish a reality.

Re: All I want to do right now is fuck a woman

(Anonymous) 2014-09-07 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Same position as you anon. Yeah sometimes it's so frustrating.

Re: All I want to do right now is fuck a woman

(Anonymous) 2014-09-07 07:42 am (UTC)(link)
I feel ya. I've only had it happen once, and fortunately it was easy enough to throw on a strap-on and down, but man did it suck. Have you tried expressing this? Maybe he'd be down for some rolepalying, er something?