[ SECRET POST #2806 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2806 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Five Nights at Freddy's]


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03.
[Star Trek, MCU, Batman Begins]


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04.
[Twilight Saga]


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05.
[Xenosaga]


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06.
[Doctor Who]


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07.
[Great British Bake Off]


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08.
[Law & Order: Criminal Intent]


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09.
[Minecraft]


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10.
[Macklemore]










Notes:

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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I'm going to post this here because it's relevant and I'm way too embarrassed to ever submit this as an actual secret, and have an irrational need to say it SOMEWHERE. I've had a massive crush on a celebrity for almost a year now. I had the rare opportunity to meet this person at an event, and started talking to them about a major interest we share, and 6 months later we have been emailing and pseudo-flirting and it is very nearly ruining my life as we are both married. HELP ME FS, I AM AN IDIOT

[(Anonymous)]

Well, um... if you recognize that the problem isn't having a crush on a celeb, it's that you're possibly sharing a certain intimacy (not necessarily physical) with another person outside your marriage. If you were doing this with, say, a coworker, or a random person you met in a store, it really wouldn't be any better. It's not the crush, it's the way you've chosen to react to it.

I don't think there's anything wrong with having a famous or semi-famous friend. But if you're "fulfilling" some "intimate need" that isn't with your spouse (mind you, I'm not referring to a dream like skydiving, or being a writer, etc), then you may want to step back a bit and decide what's missing from your marriage. And also ask yourself if your marriage is worth putting at risk over your possibly inappropriate actions. Do you have any respect for your spouse, and for yourself? It's one thing to talk to a celeb, it's entirely another to ignore all boundaries here.

[(Anonymous)]

the anon you're posting under

Kind of echoing the poster above me, you've got to look at your relationship with your SO and address it. As in, look at the relationship, and figure out what's wrong, what's missing, what you want, what you have/had and work on that. I don't know what kind of relationship you have, but depending on how open/honest your are with your SO, talk to him/her. Work on it together. Or just work on it yourself. IDK.

If your emails are getting flirty, put an end to that. Be real. He's married. You're married. And it's dishonoring/disrespecting both of your spouses. Some people might think flirting is harmless, but you're saying it's ruining your life, so you know what you've got to do.

Good luck poster. Keep it real.