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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-08 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2806 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2806 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Five Nights at Freddy's]


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[Star Trek, MCU, Batman Begins]


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[Twilight Saga]


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[Xenosaga]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Great British Bake Off]


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[Law & Order: Criminal Intent]


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[Minecraft]


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[Macklemore]










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(Anonymous) 2014-09-09 11:38 am (UTC)(link)
Well, um... if you recognize that the problem isn't having a crush on a celeb, it's that you're possibly sharing a certain intimacy (not necessarily physical) with another person outside your marriage. If you were doing this with, say, a coworker, or a random person you met in a store, it really wouldn't be any better. It's not the crush, it's the way you've chosen to react to it.

I don't think there's anything wrong with having a famous or semi-famous friend. But if you're "fulfilling" some "intimate need" that isn't with your spouse (mind you, I'm not referring to a dream like skydiving, or being a writer, etc), then you may want to step back a bit and decide what's missing from your marriage. And also ask yourself if your marriage is worth putting at risk over your possibly inappropriate actions. Do you have any respect for your spouse, and for yourself? It's one thing to talk to a celeb, it's entirely another to ignore all boundaries here.