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Re: Feeling alone with a kink?
Needless to say it's usually a bullying tactic and part of the whole system that men like to set up to convince other men that they're not "real" men. Which is a whole other topic.
But yes, that's just one of the shitty lies that men tell each other about women.
Re: Feeling alone with a kink?
But I expect this has a lot to with where you were raised. In the US at least, the majority of male babies are circumcised. Fortunately, this has been declining.
Re: Feeling alone with a kink?
tl;dr it's never "some chicks don't like uncut dicks" it's always "if you're not cut, you're a loser who will never have a gf".
Re: Feeling alone with a kink?
And I do know that some men are bullied about this by other men. But I can almost guarantee than many men are also bullied by women about this. It isn't like the idea that women don't like uncircumcised penises came from nowhere. But I do think this is primarily only applies to the US (among others) where circumcision is very common.
I did not spell circumcision correctly on the first try at all. Not even once.
Re: Feeling alone with a kink?
Plus it's crazy to assume that this actually matters so much to a person who actually has an emotional attachment to someone else that they'd just refuse a relationship altogether, which is the other part of the insinuation.
Also, there's nothing to say that the same uncircumsized guy is going not going to find an individual within of the percentage of women who don't care or prefer circumsized. The way these arguments usually go is in blanket statements of "WOMEN ARE X", as they usually tend to in these circles.
It doesn't only apply to the USA either, since this is internet culture I'm talking about. Only, since it's internet culture I'm talking about there's a bunch of reverse bullying and equally harmful shit that gets thrown about that really isn't worth getting into here.
Though women might do it as well, by definition they're not really part of the cycle of institutionalized degradation that goes on here, though. Which is why I wasn't including whatever female bias might actually be there in the discussion. It's not actually relevant to what occurs here.
Re: Feeling alone with a kink?
(Anonymous) 2014-09-10 07:40 am (UTC)(link)