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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-13 03:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2811 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2811 ⌋

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Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-09-14 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a virgin in my mid-20s and haven't even been on any dates in quite a long time and I kind of hate it. I just feel like there must be something wrong with me. It's impossible for me to imagine someone finding me attractive. Even the prospect of going on dates or possibly sleeping with someone is kind of terrifying and unknown - I wouldn't have any real idea what to do but I'm at the age where I definitely should. I just hear my friends talking about their sex lives and their relationships and I just feel sort of miserable and like a shit (while still being happy for them ofc).

Re: Confession Thread

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-09-14 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
Two things:

1) There's no correct age to start being sexually active. You're either ready for it or not. Don't feel pressured to do something just because your friends are. You're also not worth any less (or more) because you happened to wait longer than average.

2) There's someone out there who is going to find you attractive. No matter who you are, what you look like, what your personal configuration happens to be... someone thinks it's pretty hot. Stop worrying about that.

If you're looking for ways to experiment with your dating experience there are plenty of places online to do just that. You don't need to necessarily even date anyone. If you're just looking for an affirmation that people are still interested in you sexually, you can make a profile on a dating site (or app) and watch the responses pile up.

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-09-14 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
This is where I'm at too.

To be honest, though, I do it to myself. When I'm not at work, I just sit at home by myself and mess around on the internet. I've been on one date my entire life -- when I was 19 -- and made out with the guy, but that's as far as I've gotten.

Like you, I'm not sure what to do at this point. Online dating?

Re: Confession Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-09-14 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
da but this is pretty much me, exactly.