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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-14 03:43 pm

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(Anonymous) 2014-09-14 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
My mother.

She is the most miserable person I know and she always make herself to be the victim. She's the only person I know who could burn down an orphanage and still claim to be the victim because she used the last of her matches to do cause the arson.

Everything out of her mouth is, "You know who died/is dying?" "You know what horrible thing your aunt did?" "You know who is an idiot?" "You know what I hate?" I am drained after every time she talks to me. She is like an rain cloud that is determined to drown me in misery.

She and I are always butting heads because she treats me like a rival rather than a daughter. To the point that she can say something and I correct her with physical proof and she will refuse to look at the proof just so she can continue to say that I am wrong. For example, one time I asked her where did she put a container of leftovers because I was looking for an easy dinner. She told me that I was nuts because I had thrown it out yesterday. I told her I did not. She, again, said I was crazy because she had seen me, herself, throw it out. Of course, I did find it a moment later in the back of the fridge. I held it out to show that she was the one who was in the wrong. But she refused to look and kept on telling me how I was a liar and crazy.

I have no respect for her. I know I should because she is my mom but I can't bring myself to have any because the way she acts.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-14 10:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry and I hope you can keep her at arm's length. Some people are determined to drown in their own misery, and they want to take everyone down with them.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-14 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Honestly if your mom wants to be respected like a parent she should act like a parent. Good luck with her anon. I hope you won't live together for too long.
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2014-09-15 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
If you no longer live with her cut her out. If you current live with her leave as soon as you can.

This might be a moot point but after a certain point, being blood stops excusing a toxic relationship.

Maybe you can't help loving her. That's fine! That's not you being weak, that's you being kind. But you can love her from a distance. An emotionally safe distance.
Edited 2014-09-15 02:41 (UTC)