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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-14 03:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2812 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2812 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-09-14 10:30 pm (UTC)(link)
My mother.

She's incredibly self-pitying and neurotic, and refuses to even consider the possibility that she may have an anxiety issue. She constantly invalidates my emotions, refuses to treat me like an adult and thinks everything I do is a jibe at her in some way. She's a huge fan of gaslighting and pretending that things didn't happen, mostly to avoid criticism. No one else is allowed to have a bad day, but when she does we all know about it.

She also treats my dad like shit. He's the breadwinner of the family and works his arse off 24/7, and she complains constantly because he "didn't get the right groceries", "didn't cook food she liked" etc. yet she never shops or cooks for herself. She absolutely hates the fact that me and Dad get along well and eavesdrops on our conversations frequently so she can find something to take out of context and start an argument about.

Whenever I try to leave the house during an argument (go for a walk, chill at a friend's house etc.) she breaks down sobbing and begging me not to leave, even threatening to destroy my property if I do go.

She's basically batshit insane. I'm an adult but unfortunately still live with her, so have to maintain a level of civility. I feel bad for saying it because she's my mother and she does have her good points sometimes, but I have little to no love or respect for her at all.