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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-20 03:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #2818 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2818 ⌋

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Re: Am I an Asshole?

(Anonymous) 2014-09-20 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)
How much money a guy has is a factor in how willing I am to date him, and I lean towards the richer side.

Re: Am I an Asshole?

(Anonymous) 2014-09-20 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Nah, that's just self-preservation.

Re: Am I an Asshole?

(Anonymous) 2014-09-20 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Isn't how much money a potential partner has, a major issue for most people? Unless you yourself are wealthy enough for it to not matter at all?
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Re: Am I an Asshole?

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-09-20 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Honestly it isn't for me, but I'm shit at the life plan(tm).

Re: Am I an Asshole?

(Anonymous) 2014-09-20 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)
If I was wealthy (I'm not) I would care even more about how much money a potential partner had, otherwise I would have doubts on whether they cared about me or my money.

Re: Am I an Asshole?

(Anonymous) 2014-09-20 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
I think that's pretty common with wealthy people. One of the reasons people tend to date within their own economic class.

Re: Am I an Asshole?

(Anonymous) 2014-09-20 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
You're not an asshole. I didn't grow up with money, we always struggled with even the most basic things, so you better believe money was a factor in who I decided to date when I grew up.

I couldn't share my life with anyone I didn't love but you better believe my husband went to the front of the line when he mentioned his grandfather's country club.

Re: Am I an Asshole?

(Anonymous) 2014-09-20 11:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't need a partner to be rich, but I do need someone who wouldn't become an instant financial burden -i.e. someone self-supporting with good money habits and no massive debt without the income to pay it off.

Re: Am I an Asshole?

(Anonymous) 2014-09-20 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
This.
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Re: Am I an Asshole?

[personal profile] elaminator 2014-09-20 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't see why that would make you an asshole. It being a factor is something I think is pretty understandable, and not everyone has the same priorities so if you're worried about cash and financial stability I don't see the problem.

Plus, date who you want, who cares.

Re: Am I an Asshole?

(Anonymous) 2014-09-21 04:23 am (UTC)(link)
I think that's normal. Why would you willingly date someone who you may have to provide for financially in the event of a more serious relationship? Managing money is a skill, and people who are good with money are much less likely to become a financial burden later in life.