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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-20 03:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #2818 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2818 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-09-21 03:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe you should share it with someone? Maybe even your mom? Someone you really trust?

What's most important here is your health. Your mental and emotional well being are also very important, so you've got to figure out what you really want. But I think it's best if you find someone to confide this to--counseling? Therapist? Doctor? Someone far away enough that it doesn't feel messy?

And if you do decide to lose the weight again, don't be afraid to tell your friends you're not comfortable with their behavior. Friends are friends because they help you/give you a space to be yourself, no worries of judgements/etc. So if they're taking that away, let them know.

Whatever you decide to do, I hope you're happy :]

(Anonymous) 2014-09-21 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh wow, I didn't expect that anyone would respond. I agree that I should find someone to talk to-- I don't want to dump all that burden on my poor mother, she's got her own troubles, but if I can budget enough out I might look into seeing a therapist, yeah.

As for my friends...I told them then how uncomfortable they were making me, and there were a lot of apologies and promises to change, but it always came back. :/ Even if they were just joking, it made me feel so conspicuous I couldn't stand it.

Thank you. Hopefully figure this stuff out soon.