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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-21 03:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2819 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2819 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-09-21 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
For some (not all, obviously) BNFs and shut-ins on tumblr (and lj, back in the day), fandom is the only thing they really have. They don't really have anything going on irl, whether it's because of unfortunate circumstances or because they're just too lazy/emotionally fragile to try, so instead they obsess over fandom and invest way too much of themselves in it which leads to emotional breakdowns over things the rest of us would find inconsequential. It doesn't make their melodrama less ridiculous, but I do genuinely feel sorry for people like that

(Anonymous) 2014-09-21 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Same here. It's sad that they have nothing else in their life other than fandom. I was once friends with someone like that, and it was exhausting because all she wanted to do was talk about fandom, RP fandom, toss around fanfic ideas or art ideas and she wanted me to be available to do this practically 24/7. Eventually we parted ways on a bad note, but is still kind of feel bad for her.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-21 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
And there are wonderful pills you can take nowadays that will help you get over that shit. I'm sorry, but people like this need help and lots of meds.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-21 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
But even pills don't make stuff like this go away in an instant.

I was one of those people. It took me roughly five years of therapy and riding the merry-go-round of what crazy effects will THIS pill have on me to get to the point where if I'm in a drama llama mood, I go offline.

May you never have to deal with it.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-21 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

(Anonymous) 2014-09-21 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
ayrt

I agree that people like this do probably need some sort of professional help, but I still feel sorry for them. It's also not always easy for people to get this sort of help, especially if they not have a lot of money/insurance and they live in a country where the cost of healthcare is ludicrous
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-09-22 03:44 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, but getting started on that can be hard.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-22 11:43 am (UTC)(link)
Or kill themselves for being so worthless.

(Anonymous) 2014-09-22 12:01 pm (UTC)(link)
lol

(Anonymous) 2014-09-23 12:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Why don't YOU kill yourself?