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fandomsecrets2014-09-22 06:44 pm
[ SECRET POST #2820 ]
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Re: Mostly want to get this out
You're obviously not the same person now that you were then, so why do you think you have more of a chance of getting into a relationship with an abusive person?
Re: Mostly want to get this out
(Anonymous) 2014-09-23 11:44 am (UTC)(link)Old habits die hard, and even when they do, those fears can remain. When you're abused, it does horrible things to your confidence. It makes you question what you're capable of handling.
It's been said that it isn't enough for the abuse to stop, or for the person to be taken out of the abusive environment. The person has to be deprogrammed of certain behaviors, and re-learn how to react (or how not to react) to certain situations so that they don't fall back into those same patterns.