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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-22 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2820 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2820 ⌋

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Re: I just need some perspectives

[personal profile] dimestoresaint 2014-09-23 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
OP, her decision isn't about you. Stop making it about you.

You have every right to be disappointed, but the fact that you keep bringing up her parents' money makes you sound like a real asshole. As other people have already said, just because her parents are paying some of her expenses doesn't mean she can feel free to spend her own money frivolously--if she's anything like me, she probably feels guilty spending any money at all on fun things while her parents are covering her necessities, and/or is taking the opportunity to save as much as she can for the inevitable rainy day when they'll no longer be supporting her.

At any rate, it's fine to be disappointed that this thing you were excited for isn't happening, but it is not fine (and is, in fact, incredibly shitty and selfish) to treat your friend's finances as a personal insult to you.