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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-22 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2820 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2820 ⌋

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Re: Mostly want to get this out

(Anonymous) 2014-09-23 03:43 am (UTC)(link)
It's possible, and smart of you to be concerned about this although I hope you don't let worry isolate you from the possibility of relationships altogether. What might help is working on identifying your boundaries and being aware of how/when they're violated, and by who. Suggested reading:

http://captainawkward.com/
Gavin de Becker's "The Gift of Fear"

Re: Mostly want to get this out

(Anonymous) 2014-09-23 04:29 am (UTC)(link)
Agree with above recs, and also I suggest "The Verbally Abusive Relationship" by Patricia Evans, which is a disturbing read - but it shows how abuse can start small and work up. Remember too that people like Madonna, Tina Turner and Nigella Lawson have fallen foul of abusers, so it's no disgrace to do so: and forewarned is forearmed, after all. You are being very sensible, anon.