[ SECRET POST #2820 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2820 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Mostly want to get this out

[(Anonymous)]

Honestly, anon, sometimes I worry about this myself. Sometimes I don't know how much is too much, or how much I should stand before leaving. Obviously, with an abusive boyfriend, I should GTFO. With a shitty boss, I would have to weigh paying the bills with the work environment and ask if it's worth leaving, and then take the steps (CV/resume and job hunt) to find something better.

I figure with decent people, you should be able to express your thoughts and feelings (appropriately, remember boundaries also apply to you) and not be repeatedly dismissed or blamed for your thoughts/feelings. Be around people who give a shit about you and would rather help build you up than tear you down. Limit your interactions with those who would hurt you.

I know, sounds simple enough. And can be hard as hell for someone who's been abused. I'm finding, though, it isn't just enough that you forgive yourself for thinking/reacting in a wrong way, it's about taking responsibility for yourself, and not taking responsibility for what the other person does.