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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-09-25 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2823 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2823 ⌋

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Re: Advice Column

(Anonymous) 2014-09-26 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
I'm going to disagree with the previous comment and say it's weird she's this insistent about setting you up with ANY guy despite your lack of interest, never mind a guy she has a sexual history with. Why does she see herself as your matchmaker? Why is she harping on this particular guy despite your past brush-offs, which should be a clue that you're not into it? Is she normally this odd about you doing things her way?

Just tell her thanks for thinking of you, but you're not interested. Repeat as needed. If she won't let up, feel free to ask her directly why this is so important to her, but stress that regardless, YOU WILL NOT BE DATING THIS RANDOM DUDE.

Re: Advice Column

(Anonymous) 2014-09-26 04:23 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure how that is disagreeing with the previous comment? It sounds like you agree, only you're taking the NOPE one step further and asking why.

Re: Advice Column

(Anonymous) 2014-09-26 02:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Like I said in the other comment I think she was the one that rejected this dude so she feels guilty, and she also feels sorry for me that I don't have a BF. Like we're both these pathetic single people and she's going to be our savior or something. I can't think of specific examples but that's just the impression I've gotten from things she's said.

"Is she normally this odd about you doing things her way?"

Pretty much. Everything's all about her, all the time. I honestly can't remember her ever asking how I was or what was going on in my life. Every time we see each other she starts out right away with whatever drama she's dealing with at the moment.

I know I need to just tell her I'm not interested and to leave me alone but that's easier said than done.