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fandomsecrets2014-09-27 03:36 pm
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Re: Stupid things to get mad over
Re: Stupid things to get mad over
(Anonymous) 2014-09-27 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Stupid things to get mad over
1) Much of this enthusiasm is weirdly gleeful "lol those people with different opinions are idiots" posts. E.g. "how can anyone think they are not in love???", "how do you even watch the show if you don't think they're a couple?? XD". Things like this.
2) Devaluation of friendship and platonic interactions. "Omg character A saved character B's life, how can it be platonic?!", "Character A is jealous, jealousy only exists in romantic relationships!"
The "they're canonically in love!" kind of squee-y enthusiasm I'm actually pretty chill with, even if it annoys me mildly because it's factually incorrect.
Re: Stupid things to get mad over
And it's not just a gen vs shipping thing. A friend of mine who's a giant slash fan once went on a rant to me about how much she hates this stuff in her own OTPs, because it undermines her enthusiasm for the ship by making her go "well, no, not really" and defend the non-shipping side. And I can totally see that too. I rarely ship a couple because THEY NEED TO BE IN LOVE OR ELSE WHAT'S THE POINT. I ship them because I like their relationship so much as it is that I also ship them in addition.
Re: Stupid things to get mad over
So I'm happy about the fact that some shippers are uncomfortable with this attitude, too. I have a couple of friends who hold the same opinion.
Re: Stupid things to get mad over
I think straight people may be less likely to feel that way about slash and femslash couples, and more likely to ship or slash in this narrow-minded fashion because they have rigid socially-conditioned views about how human beings are allowed to love each other. I don't want to generalize about all straight people, because I'm straight too and I know other straight people who don't feel like this, but I think the motives are frequently different.
Re: Stupid things to get mad over
On the other hand, AFAIA, many aggressive tjlc-ers are queer, which is... sad, really. If their treatment of fictional relationships is anything to go by, they may have some serious RL emotional issues.
Re: Stupid things to get mad over
(Anonymous) 2014-09-28 12:27 am (UTC)(link)