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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-10-11 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2839 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2839 ⌋

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2014-10-12 07:48 am (UTC)(link)
Wow. Some of you, guys, sure are fast calling someone "controlling" and "jdgmental" over a secret and a couple of comments.

(Anonymous) 2014-10-12 10:20 am (UTC)(link)
They're telling someone they claim is a friend that their enthusiasm for fandom is wrong, not something they "approve" of and they want them to stop because they have more important issues to deal with than their friend's -- by their "I'm so above silly fandom!" standards, despite the fact that they're posting here and seem pretty damn over-invested themselves in how someone else chooses to behave -- over-reacting, all without ever clarifying whether said friend is actually going through some stuff they haven't talked about.

How do you NOT get controlling and judgmental from their behavior is more to the point. Would you like a friend telling you how to behave just to conform to how they deem you acceptable of acting, because that's pretty much what's going on here.

(Anonymous) 2014-10-12 10:42 am (UTC)(link)
So I guess you scoff at and disapprove of your friends in non-judgemental ways, anon? Or do you tell them to stop that behaviour you don't approve of in a non-controlling way?

(Anonymous) 2014-10-12 04:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Hi OP.