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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-10-11 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2839 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2839 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-10-12 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Tread very carefully OP. It's fine not giving what you consider dramatics the time of day but if your friend is hiding behind fandom, there may well be a reason. My friend became obsessed with a very dark TV show and its fandom because she didn't want to focus on what kept repeatedly happening in her life- her fertility issues and losing her babies.

She needed fandom to distract her and had actual friends outside of fandom who helped her through it. Broach the subject but be aware that if you're just fandom friends then maybe that's all she needs you to be-maybe she doesn't want to focus on other issues. If you are an all-round friend then talk to her but listen more. She may have problems but her annoying you if your issue not hers, she doesn't have to change her behaviour for you whether it's healthy or unhealthy.

Anyone who goes on about any subject can be annoying, but it's up to her whether she cares that you think she's that or thinks it's your issue alone.