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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-10-13 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2841 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2841 ⌋

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Re: hitting disobedient children

(Anonymous) 2014-10-13 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I was spanked as child and if I ever have kids I'm spanking them. It's when it's excessive that I've got an issue.

Re: hitting disobedient children

(Anonymous) 2014-10-13 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2010/05/corporal-punishment.aspx
Spanking is highly advised against.

Re: hitting disobedient children

(Anonymous) 2014-10-13 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Look, I really don't give a shit what that link says. I don't even really intend to have kids, so it's even more irrelevant.

Re: hitting disobedient children

(Anonymous) 2014-10-13 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Good you don't intend to have kids, if you're willing to hit them without any concern for what psychological studies say the impacts are.

Re: hitting disobedient children

(Anonymous) 2014-10-14 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
lmao okay anon.

Re: hitting disobedient children

(Anonymous) 2014-10-13 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm in the category that Kazdin says they don't have conclusive research on- I was spanked (by which I define as a swat on the butt by a hand- nowhere else and absolutely never with objects) infrequently, averaging out to maybe once a year from age 5 to 10. A spank was serious, but I'm one of those people who was brought up to feel that a parent's disappointment was worse than their anger.

Re: hitting disobedient children

(Anonymous) 2014-10-14 08:54 am (UTC)(link)
Yup same here. I will never go as far as my father did, I think that was too much. But some (not many but some) really do need to be spanked.