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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-10-13 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2841 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2841 ⌋

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xalus: birthday skeleton (Default)

Re: hitting disobedient children

[personal profile] xalus 2014-10-13 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not really leaning towards the whole "having kids" thing, so I figure I should just let parents figure this one out on their own.
I'm not exactly against some mild hitting. I remember getting spanked. It was effective, and I never felt any lasting anger about it. I mean, it was my fault, I knew the consequences and I continued with my bad behavior, so...

I believe my parents' justification was that in nature, like, dogs, for example, will nip at their young to let them know when they need to stop. But I can also see the argument for us not being dogs and totally being able to use words to express our dissatisfaction.

Bottom line, I'm not really sure, but I'm not personally worried too much either way.
xalus: birthday skeleton (Default)

Re: hitting disobedient children

[personal profile] xalus 2014-10-13 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Of course, I wasn't a problem child. I was only spanked probably once or twice as a last resort. If your only punishment is a spanking and it never works, I think that's definitely a problem.