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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-10-13 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2841 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2841 ⌋

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philstar22: (Default)

Re: hitting disobedient children

[personal profile] philstar22 2014-10-13 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I was spanked. My parents have said they regret it. I believe that hitting a child is wrong, regardless of the reason, and I also think that it is not actually an effective form of punishment. You just teach them to fear you, not to do the right thing.

Re: hitting disobedient children

(Anonymous) 2014-10-14 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
whatever dude.
philstar22: (Spike/Dru)

Re: hitting disobedient children

[personal profile] philstar22 2014-10-14 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
Okay? I was just expressing my opinion.
making_excuses: (Default)

Re: hitting disobedient children

[personal profile] making_excuses 2014-10-14 12:52 am (UTC)(link)

Re: hitting disobedient children

(Anonymous) 2014-10-14 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think that's true -- I was never afraid of my mom for spanking me. But it sure made me want to avoid doing the thing that would get me spanked -- which is the entire point.
philstar22: (Doctor Who: Eight)

Re: hitting disobedient children

[personal profile] philstar22 2014-10-14 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
it didn't for me. It just made me afraid of getting hit. Taking away something I liked was the only punishment that ever actually worked on me. And regardless, I think there are other punishments and spanking should only ever be a last resort if nothing else works. Hitting should never be a first choice. And that is what spanking is. If an adult did that to another adult without that adult's permission we'd call it assault. Why is hitting children any different?