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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-10-13 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2841 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2841 ⌋

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Re: hitting disobedient children

(Anonymous) 2014-10-14 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
In general, I don't believe in hitting kids. ESPECIALLY not out of anger.

If you MUST hit, save it as a LAST RESORT (such as life or death, kid is about to stick something in a socket or something) and don't hit hard. Just a little swat to get his/her attention.

I was hit repeatedly as a kid. Belted, slapped, choked, hair pulled, spanked, hard toy thrown at my face. My brother got much of the same as well. It didn't straighten me out, it only made me afraid of everything and suspicious of everyone. And that's not counting emotional abuse. As an adult, I have no friends and I trust nobody. I plan to never breed, because aside from the fact that kids just don't interest me, I never want to put a helpless, innocent child through a fraction of the shit my brother and I went through. I try too hard to do everything on my own and it's so frustrating, feeling like I can't depend on anyone or anything. Parents with anger issues need some serious help. Godfuckigndamnit that is your child. How can anyone treat a child like that? You don't have to coddle and hold their hand through every little thing but I feel like if your first or trusted method of discipline is to beat the fucking shit out of your own kid while screaming your thoughts about what a disappointment they are to you, then you have failed as a parent, and you should do your kid a favor and give them up for adoption and disappear out of their lives forever.