[ SECRET POST #2845 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2845 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Xena Warrior Princess]


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(Fullmetal Alchemist, Welcome To Night Vale)


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[AV Club]


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05. [ SPOILERS for Great British Bake Off ]



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06. [ SPOILERS for How to Train Your Dragon 2 ]
[ WARNING for incest ]



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07. [ WARNING for incest ]

[Gone Girl]


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08. [ WARNING for sexual abuse ]

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Somehow I just can't imagine a relationship with a huge age gap that isn't full of gaslighting and "pulling rank" and huge angry fights when the younger person won't submit.

Maybe it's because of how much my dad screwed with my mind in some ways. I want to avoid that at all costs in a romantic relationship.

[(Anonymous)]

Fwiw,I once dated a gentleman 14 years older than my then 20 year old self, and it was quite probably one of the healthiest, sanest partnerships I've ever had. He was quite a bit more respectful of my needs and limits than most of my other so's, and the only one who never I've pressured me to go beyond what I was comfortable with.

I agree that there are definitely some hazards with that large an she gap, but it can be done in a healthy manner.

[(Anonymous)]

That can happen even without an age gap, though I fully understand why you'd be concerned with it given your relationship with your dad. FWIW, there's a 10 year age gap between me and my SO and we're fine.

[(Anonymous)]

Define "huge". 15 year gap here (together 30+ years, actually)and nothing could be further from the truth.

[(Anonymous)]

Hmm, it's funny the difference perspective makes, because with my neighbors who have a large age gap (maybe 15-20 years, I'm not sure), the younger one is calling the shots and the older one is always having to fall in line (and I think they're pretty much doomed, but that's the long version of the story).

I'd just avoiding painting all age-gap relationship dynamics with the same brush. I personally know some that work very well. Like everything else, it really depends on the people involved.