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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-01 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2860 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2860 ⌋

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Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

(Anonymous) 2014-11-01 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
By ignore it people don't mean pretend it isn't there, it means acknowledge it, show that it doesn't get to you, and go on your way. There's nothing more demoralizing to someone who's trying to get to you, than to have their efforts be acknowledged, shrugged at, and dismissed. The acknowledgement is important so they don't make the mistake of thinking you missed it or that you are just making a show of dominance yourself by pretending it didn't happen.

Try giving them a calm nod and leaving next time. "I heard you, but you're not getting what you want."
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Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-11-02 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
:|a yeah, this is a good point.