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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-01 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2860 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2860 ⌋

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Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

(Anonymous) 2014-11-01 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I believe that the snipe and the response to the snipe come from the same emotional source.

"Just ignoring it" will end the confrontation, because it stops the chain.

This reminds me of an article I read in the NY Times Magazine years ago, about a sociologist who had found success in treating revenge killings in gang-ridden neighborhoods by regarding the chains of violence as an infectious disease. When the "disease vectors" were stopped, the violence didn't spread.

Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[personal profile] solticisekf 2014-11-01 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
So, how did he stop it in practice? O.o
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Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-11-02 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
ends the confrontation, but doesn't solve the conflict.