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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-01 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2860 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2860 ⌋

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Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

(Anonymous) 2014-11-01 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
It kind of depends. If you keep fighting it won't really stop but if you don't say anything they can gd the the impression that they can get away with talking shit. Trying to find a balance is easier said than done. But the response your mum gave is really annoying to me. It's just the sort of response that implies that you are equally wrong. And if she is provoking you she should be told to shut up as well.
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Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-11-02 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
yeah that really bugs me. She takes the stance basically ANY time we have a conflict (happens more with my brother, though he's not home right now) that both/all parties are equally at fault.