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fandomsecrets2014-11-01 03:55 pm
[ SECRET POST #2860 ]
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Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?
(Anonymous) 2014-11-01 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)Someone being disrespectful is not always something that should be challenged, at least not immediately.
If it's an emotional response, ignore it for the moment and if they don't apologize later, bring up the subject *calmly*.
If it isn't or they behavior is seriously bad, then yes, answering may be better but even then the *how* matters. Most of the time, answering in the same way just makes thinks worse.
But a small fight between siblings? It's probably not a big deal and being mature is not "slinking off with your tail between your legs", but instead accepting that is nothing serious and that's better to let it go instead of making it worse.
Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?