[ SECRET POST #2860 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2860 ⌋

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Comments

Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[diet_poison]

oh gosh, I'm sorry that happened to you. Middle school can be so turbulent and I feel teachers have a responsibility to be on the lookout for behavior like this instead of turning the other way.

Why did they say "punishing the offenders" was a bad idea, and what does that mean in this context? Do you mean discipline from the school, or "revenge"? (sounds like the former is what happened in this case, or at least I hope)

yeah, walking away and being calm is good. It's still a snap judgment of "ugh DON'T treat me like that" and wanting to respond...I should work on that.

Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[a_potato]

It was punishment from the school. They said that, if they got involved, it would make things far worse for me than if I simply handled it on my own. The logic was that the bullies would be further provoked by me getting them in trouble. On top of that, the guidance counselors insisted that I just needed to learn how to talk to them correctly, because I could have them "eating out of the palm of my hand" if I only put my mind to it.

Looking back, it all seems rather twisted (because the notion that the answer to me being bullied is to learn how to manipulate people is...wtf).

Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[diet_poison]

What the fuck. That's just messed up in every way. D:

I really hope those same people are not still teaching/administrating at schools.