[ SECRET POST #2860 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2860 ⌋

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Comments

Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[diet_poison]

Taking part in arguments is one thing, but seeing something happen and not saying something to correct the instigator will just result in more conflict down the road. (Fortunately, I'm looking for an apartment as soon as I get to the other side of this job hunt...)

it's also frustrating because they tend to just blame the last person they heard, even if that person has no fault in the argument.

Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[solticisekf]

you mean parents tend to blame the last person? I don't know, depends on people in question. Mine were too put upon to blame anyone) no, wait, they blamed the oldest sibling. hehe.

I agree that it's better to say something earlier than later. Cultivate some guilt and sulk a lot? xD

And good luck with job! Finding an appartment will be an adventure, in the current economy. -_-

Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[diet_poison]

They blame the person who they last heard say something loudly. Because disturbing their peace is the entire conflict, to them. :/

Guilt tripping makes me feel slimy. I really prefer to be upfront. XD

Thank you! I'm honestly more worried about the job than the apartment - I think I have some good options for places to live, though it's very possible I'll have to try to talk my parents into letting me stay with them until there's space available if I find one that isn't currently open.

Re: does "just ignore it" work for most people?

[solticisekf]

Being upfront is cool. \0/ I say, do what comes naturally.

So many live with their parents, but I hope the apartment works out.