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⌈ Secret Post #2861 ⌋

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Re: How to make goal and be responsible

[(Anonymous)]

That's not a lot of detail, anon. Why do you think you're failing your classes? Is it a time management issue, difficulty with material, difficulty with professors, etc.? You may want to check and see if your uni has some sort of academic counseling available, someone whose job it is to help you figure out these things. If you think it's a psychological issue, perhaps your uni also has someone at student health services you could talk to?

Lots of people have a rock bottom panic moment at college. I know I did. My advice is not to wallow in it and avoid the issue, because that makes things so much worse. Seek help ASAP. If you feel you can talk to your parents, be honest with them about your problems, too.

Re: How to make goal and be responsible

[(Anonymous)]

Mostly it's just personal problem. I chose my current major because I thought I can like it, but it's hard and I'm just... not good enough. All my works are inadequate, and gradually I lost motivation to even finish them. It doesn't help that there are usually lots of work and you need to ask people for help and I can't talk to people. Like my last project, I do participate but when it comes to finishing it I just left it there, till there's no way in hell I can finish it on time. Whenever I look at it I just feel so...tired and disssapointing. My sister says once that there's something wrong with my brain, maybe she does have a point.

There's no fucking way in hell I can tell my parents. They pay my tuition and I'm being such a dissapointment, I would die if they know. Also my dad and me don't have a really good relationship.

PS: ESL so sorry if it doesn't make much sense

Re: How to make goal and be responsible

[(Anonymous)]

(OP btw, the above post too)
My uni does have counselor, but I'm not comfortable with telling strangers about my problems. I can't even tell my family about my problems. Also, my country doesn't really put much importance in mental health care (therapy usually cost a lot) so I'm not really sure a uni cousellor can cut it