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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-03 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2862 ]


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tabaqui: (Default)

[personal profile] tabaqui 2014-11-04 04:05 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe? But i wouldn't have sex with someone i wasn't attracted to in some sense, because the attraction has to be there for me to actually *enjoy* the sex. If i just wanted to get off, i'd do it myself - no muss, no fuss.

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[personal profile] othellia 2014-11-04 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
Pretty much this.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-04 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
Everyone's different. I'm not ace, and I'm fine having sex with people I'm not attracted to if I feel like having sex with someone else. Sex is more physical than most people are willing to admit.

The example here though, is someone who is romantically attracted to and involved with their partner doing something that they'll both enjoy.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-04 08:41 am (UTC)(link)
Sex is more physical than most people are willing to admit.

I'm not totally sure what you mean by this. That it's just a physical thing and so it doesn't matter if you're attracted to the person? Or something else?

something that they'll both enjoy

The asexual person won't necessarily enjoy it, though.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-04 10:04 am (UTC)(link)
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It's not so much that it doesn't matter, I think? Still, someone else touching you feels way different to touching yourself - regardless of attraction. So sometimes, you might want that feeling, and attraction to the partner becomes secondary.

To me it's the other way around - attraction or not, the physicality often doesn't work out for me, so I think I kinda get it.