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⌈ Secret Post #2862 ⌋

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If your SO...

[(Anonymous)]

...was so focused on something else that he was unable to maintain an erection, even when he was the one who came on to you, and he said to you that he was just too excited about the day's events, how would it make you feel?

Because I feel really awful and undesirable right now, and I feel like I migth be overreacting.

Re: If your SO...

[silverr]

To me there's a lot of difference between something that happens once, and something that happens all the time.

Sounds to me like this was a one-time thing? Yes, sounds like it took you off guard, but unless it becames an "everytime" thing, I wouldn't worry about it.

Re: If your SO...

[(Anonymous)]

Curious about what the day's events were.

Re: If your SO...

[(Anonymous)]

Depends.

If he's excited because he finally got that promotion which means a better life overall for you both (bigger place, going out more, etc), then you're overreacting. This is an example, obviously.

Re: If your SO...

[(Anonymous)]

It depends on what's going on. But as a general principle, if it's the first time it's happened, I would give him the benefit of the doubt.

Re: If your SO...

[chardmonster]

If this happens all the time, and he doesn't have an erectile disorder, be suspicious.

Re: If your SO...

[(Anonymous)]

Depends on whether or not it happens once or twice, or if it's a regular occurrence. Everyone has genitalia/arousal malfunctions, anon. It's perfectly normal and happens for a bunch of reasons, and it isn't necessarily about you.

What I would caution you about is to NOT make a huge deal over it if it's a one-off thing. You could end up psyching your partner out and making the problem worse.

Re: If your SO...

[(Anonymous)]

This. I have a partner who is easily distracted and it...happens. Not every time of course, but regularly enough to notice. He can get distracted by mundane things like sweating too much etc. Hammering on it will make it worse, because then he'll be stressed about losing erection, and more distracted.


Really, if it's a rare occurrence - let it go.

Re: If your SO...

[nanslice]

I would probably laugh until I threw up, but that's just me. If it's happening multiple times, I would definitely be suspicious but if it's only happened a couple of time, eeeeh. He might have just had a super exhaustive day.