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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-03 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2862 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2862 ⌋

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Re: If your SO...

(Anonymous) 2014-11-04 07:00 am (UTC)(link)
Depends on whether or not it happens once or twice, or if it's a regular occurrence. Everyone has genitalia/arousal malfunctions, anon. It's perfectly normal and happens for a bunch of reasons, and it isn't necessarily about you.

What I would caution you about is to NOT make a huge deal over it if it's a one-off thing. You could end up psyching your partner out and making the problem worse.

Re: If your SO...

(Anonymous) 2014-11-04 10:01 am (UTC)(link)
This. I have a partner who is easily distracted and it...happens. Not every time of course, but regularly enough to notice. He can get distracted by mundane things like sweating too much etc. Hammering on it will make it worse, because then he'll be stressed about losing erection, and more distracted.


Really, if it's a rare occurrence - let it go.