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Re: What are your relationship deal breakers?

[bribedwithbacon]

I have...quite a few actually. But given how my standards have allowed me to find a partner I'm happy with, I'd say it worked.

* Is bigoted and/or participates in bigoted actions. (That is one giant NOPE.)
* Committing a crime or being okay with friends or family committing a crime that has caused harm or emotional distress towards someone else.
* Not caring about or not engaging in discussion of equal rights. (I'm active about this outside of the internet. It's a big deal to me.)
* Using any bullying tactics towards someone else. (If you can do it to that person, you can do it to me.)
* Having a Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, being a Sociopath or Psychopath. (NO THANK YOU!)
* Smoking (Friends? Of course! Dating? Sorry but no.)
* Drugs (We can totally be friends, but I would not be in a LTR with someone who does drugs sorry.)
* Talks about or compares me to any exes, whether good or bad. (That is a giant red flag of someone who hasn't moved on. So no thanks!)
* Is a dudebro. (I think this explains itself.)
* Takes pride in being rude to people and thinks it makes them look cool. (I want to date an adult, so bye!)
* Is obsessed with social media and gossip. (Nothing personal, but we're just not going to have much in common.)
* Cannot joke with me or be goofy at all. (Life is too short to waste on people who you can't laugh with.)
* Polyamorous, polygamous, or only does open relationships. (I only do closed, monogamous relationships. So it's instant incompatibility.)
* Critiques other people's appearances. (This is a red flag of someone deeply immature.)
* Has no interest in expanding their knowledge in literature, politics, science, philosophy, history, or culture.
* Thinks intellectual pursuits or interest in fandom/geek culture is "nerdy". And that being nerdy is a bad thing. (We would obviously not get along.)
* Does not take initiative in their own life such as having no goals or ambitions.
* Does not have an open mind to try new things (especially kinks).
* Does not respect me and shows through words or actions this disrespect of me or my beliefs.
* Has friends who do not respect me. (You know what they say, birds of a feather.)
* Is fine with cheating, lying, manipulating, or doing any other destructive self-serving actions.
* Does not want kids. (Way down the road, yes this is a deal breaker.)
* Refuses to compromise or talk things out.

Seems like a long list, buuuut it's worked. And I know friends who have these same standards and found happy relationships.