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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-03 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2862 ]


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(Anonymous) 2014-11-04 08:36 am (UTC)(link)
I think the issue is that you're putting a lot of value in sex, and assuming that everyone thinks the same way you do. You're also assuming that ace=unable to enjoy sex, which isn't true. You're doing something to make your partner happy, but you're not sacrificing anything. It's consensual and satisfying for everyone.

(Anonymous) 2014-11-04 08:47 am (UTC)(link)
assuming that everyone thinks the same way you do

I did think that the way I think was probably the most common, but as I'm seeing from this thread, there are plenty of people that see it different.

You're also assuming that ace=unable to enjoy sex, which isn't true.

For me, I'm not able to enjoy sex if I'm not sexually attracted to the person, and I figured that would be especially true for an asexual person who wasn't attracted to anyone but apparently that's not always the case. I imagine if I were in that situation I wouldn't be able to do it, but if it works for them, that's great.