[ SECRET POST #2870 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2870 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[X-Files]


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(Doctor Who/Torchwood)


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(Benedict Cumberbatch)


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[Star Trek]


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[Star Trek Voyager, "Macrocosm"]


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[Great British Bake Off series 4, Ruby Tandoh]


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[How to Get Away with Murder]


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[Far Cry 3]


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[Krazy Kat & Ignatz Mouse]











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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I actually understand how you feel. I was engaged, and ended up developing a very intense emotional friendship with someone else, to the point where I was harboring a pretty nasty crush. It's not as though I loved my fiancée any less, so the guilt was terrible.

You're not going to want to hear this, but the only answer is coming clean with this other person, telling them how you feel, and that you need to back off from them. Your spouse takes priority here (of course unless it's not a good relationship, but you've made no indication of that). Maybe even discussing this with your spouse is a good idea, but I can understand if that's too big an emotional dump to take on someone if nothing's going to come of it.

It took me a bit to shake it, but I honestly feel a million times better about everything now than I did while I was mired in all that. I miss my friend sometimes, but the complexity surrounding that friendship wasn't worth sacrificing my impending marriage over-- sometimes cutting off the source of your temptation really is the only answer.