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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-11-17 07:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #2876 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2876 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Boxtrolls]


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[One Piece]


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[Hockey RPF, Patrick Kane]


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[The Silmarillion]


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[Meghan Trainor: All About That Bass]


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[Radiant Historia]


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[Twin Peaks]


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[Meghan Trainor]


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[Taylor Swift]



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[Star Wars]













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Re: Breaking up

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-11-18 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
An "approach" for a breakup seems like a fucking disingenuous thing to have. I have no use for disingenuousness in relationships, so I don't have an "approach" to ending them.

Re: Breaking up

(Anonymous) 2014-11-18 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
would you say that you have a general approach of keeping it real

Re: Breaking up

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-11-18 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
I would say I treat individuals like individuals. I also don't get into relationships with people I don't respect, and I don't get into relationships expecting to end them. Whatever happens between the start and the end of said relationship determines how I'm going to react if/when that time comes.

Re: Breaking up

(Anonymous) 2014-11-18 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
If we are splitting hairs and "approach" feels too flippant, then "how have your previous relationships usually ended".

Re: Breaking up

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-11-18 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
Not...well. If childhood ones count, the first one ended with moving away and subsequent death.

Then there are a bunch of things that I don't technically count as relationships.

The second one I care to count ended I the "I will hate you forever I never want to hear your name again" fashion. We were 16. We are now on pretty friendly terms again, though not friends.

The third one ended with both of us realizing she was married and we probably should stop seeing each other in that context. We don't talk anymore but are on good terms.

The fourth one is still on offer as an FWB option. She is now married and I have an open invitation to their bedroom which I have never taken them up on.

The fifth one ended when I left the country I was in and so did he. We never spoke again, I was the break-er, he was the break-ee.
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Re: Breaking up

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-11-18 05:35 am (UTC)(link)
Wait,for 4, how did BOTH of you realize she was married - surely ONE of you new (and t wasn't you, I presume)?

Re: Breaking up

(Anonymous) 2014-11-18 04:59 pm (UTC)(link)
She must've been an amnesiac.

Re: Breaking up

(Anonymous) 2014-11-19 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
"Oh shit, that's what that ring is for!"

Re: Breaking up

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-11-21 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
Uh, that might have read weirdly. It was more of a simultaneous "OH RIGHT" moment of remembering hey maybe we both shouldn't be getting so emotional about other because things are complicated enough as it is.
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Re: Breaking up

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2014-11-21 01:04 am (UTC)(link)
Right, didn't mean to be nosy anyway - I just backed up when I read it and though "hey, wait a minute".

But yeah, getting involved with married people is often not the greatest move.