[ SECRET POST #2876 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2876 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[The Boxtrolls]


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03.
[One Piece]


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04.
[Hockey RPF, Patrick Kane]


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05.
[The Silmarillion]


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06.
[Meghan Trainor: All About That Bass]


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07.
[Radiant Historia]


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08.
[Twin Peaks]


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09.
[Meghan Trainor]


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10.
[Taylor Swift]



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11.
[Star Wars]













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Comments

Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

What's your approach to breakups?

1) I never want to see your face again and I want to forget your name.
2) Let's be friends and stay in touch.
3) Ross and Rachel

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

It depends on why we're breaking up. If they cheated or did something to make me mad, 1. If we've just grown apart, 2. Never had 3 happen so far.

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

Tried the "let's be friends and stay in touch" approach, but things steadily deteriorated until I took the "never want to see your face again and I want to forget your name" approach. Except I don't quite want to forget his name because I enjoy reminding myself what an insufferable jerkass he was.

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

Four words: You Made Me Gay (or alternatively "You made me het"). Works everytime.

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

lmao that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard

Re: Breaking up

[iceyred]

Hate breaking up. They keep looking sad and trying about their feelings. It's better to fake your own death, change your name, and move to another state.

Re: Breaking up

[kamino_neko]

I've only ever had 2, though one risked becoming 1 when she started hitting on my new gf.

Then life drifts us apart, though my most recent ex has been drifting back in, and we're still firmly in #2 when we're not too busy to get together.

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

Never see your face again. Once it's over, it's over.

Re: Breaking up

[herpymcderp]

An "approach" for a breakup seems like a fucking disingenuous thing to have. I have no use for disingenuousness in relationships, so I don't have an "approach" to ending them.

Re: Breaking up

[ariakas]

I've found that "let's be friends" basically never works unless the split was amicable and mutual. If it was one-sided, the break-up-ee always either acts like an asshole or constantly tries to get back together. Or starts as the latter and gradually morphs into the former when he realizes that it's not going to happen, and tells all of your friends how you "disrespected" him by breaking up with him and how they have to not hang out with you anymore.

Then he has a huge freakout when they obviously don't because you didn't do anything wrong and you were a terrible couple to begin with and everyone knew it and takes everyone he knows off of his Facebook page because they refuse to cut off all contact with you and moves to Montreal to work in porn.

Well, something like that anyway.

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

1 pretty much. I'm mutuals with one of my exes on tumblr, and we like/reblog stuff from each other all the time, but we don't really talk. My other three exes:

1. IRL Ex, don't talk to him since he's full of himself and has a holier-than-thou attitude towards people now
2. Never see anymore since I don't hang out where we used to, but I fully accept the blame for our relationship ending. If we met again I'd like to still be friends.
3. Online Ex, want him to get the hell off the internet and out of our mutual fandoms, huge attention-whore and overall piece of shit (my family even refers to him as "Shithead" instead of his actual name)

Re: Breaking up

[queerwolf]

All of my breakups have been mutual, luckily, and while we said we'd keep in touch it didn't happen.

Re: Breaking up

[aboutelle]

Before I got into my first relationship I always thought "if you were a couple you should also be able to stay friends after it's over because there must have been a reason you once loved each other, right?" But now, after two relationships, I've ended up wanting your first option both times because there was also a reason we broke up and that overshadows most oft the good memories for me.

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, it depends on the breakup. Are we breaking up because our relationship lacked a certain spark? Great, stay friends. Are we breaking up because our chemistry caused too much drama and pain? Probably best to just walk away, then.

Are we breaking up because she stole a lot of money from me and gave my books away to Goodwill behind my back? Definitely end all contact, and I'll let you know how to process it when I figure it out myself.

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

4) I never want to see your face again and let's never meet or do stuff together, but I don't mind remembering the good times fondly. We were just totally incompatible by the end.

Re: Breaking up

[chardmonster]

Depends entirely on why you broke up, who did the breaking up, et cetera.

I can say this much: never try to "stay friends" with someone who mistreated you. You deserve better.

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

I don't break up. Breaking up is such a faff.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pGkY_RHJIs

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

I'm bad at staying in touch with friends who I've had no negative interactions with, so it's unlikely I'd be able to keep in touch with an ex. I'm not usually mad when I break up, but I do usually take a "and we're probably never going to speak to each other again" approach.

Re: Breaking up

[bribedwithbacon]

It depends on the individual. Honestly I made a point to only date people who were respectful, so I've actually never went through a horrendous breakup with any of my exes. We decided to end things and stayed in touch. I would never do a Ross/Rachel situation with any ex though; that's a trainwreck of drama and misery waiting to happen. To me exes stay exes for a reason.

Re: Breaking up

[diet_poison]

Having had only two breakups...the first was more of 2, the second of 1. But they both sort of became 1. Two isn't a very big pool of experience to draw from though xD;

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

The best thing in the world is 1. Maybe not so harsh, but it doesn't serve any purpose to stay in touch or be friends when it keeps the wound open and oozing bloody pus. Clean breaks for all!

USE THE MIRANDA JULY APP

[caecilia]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iz13HMsvb6o

please watch this

Re: Breaking up

[kallanda_lee]

I usually end up on friendly term again after a few months of getting over it. Though to be fair it would depend on the circumstances of the breakup.

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

For most people, number 2. But there were two guys who I had to do number 1 with.

Re: Breaking up

[(Anonymous)]

Probably number 1 for me. Yeah I just don't want to know about them or have anything to do with them after the fact. They've all wanted to be 'friends' with me, but I can't stand that kind of insincere bullshit which only serves to make themselves feel ok about the whole thing. Plus I really don't want to know who they decide to fuck right after the fact. Like thanks a lot dude.